Setting boundaries with friends, loved ones, even clients or patients in business can be one of the hardest things you will ever do. Why is that? If you are like me, you may be a people pleaser. You want to make everyone happy and not rock the boat so to speak. The problem with that is, again, if you are like me, it is usually at my expense or happiness. They may like me, but I don't like me when I feel taken advantage of or like a spinless jellyfish. A lot of us suffer from the "disease to please" mindset.
Family seems to be the hardest to set boundaries with for me. They are my family, I want to see them succeed, have a good life and not have any hardships. However, that isn't my job. It has taken me a long time to realize this. Even with my children. It is my job to guide my children, to teach them how